Sunday, September 28, 2014

Taking Joy in the Little Things


Hello to our Utah Kids Family!  We love reading about and sharing in your triumphs and your hardships.  It’s nice to know we are not on this journey alone.  We have each other.

I would like to introduce our little family and tell you a bit about our 10 month old son, Jonathan or Jonny for short, and his diagnosis.  I am Molly and my husband Dave and I have been married 18 years.  We did not think we would be able to have children, but in April of 2013 we found out we had a little one on the way.  We were surprised and excited and all of those wonderful emotions that you have when you find out that you are going to be able to have the child you had given up on being able to have.  We also knew that there was a 1 in 4 chance that our baby would have Lowe Syndrome.  I had an amniocentesis done when I was 5 months along and we found out that our little boy had Lowe Syndrome.

Lowe Syndrome is a sex linked recessive genetic condition that women carry and males are affected by.  I am a carrier and I grew up with 3 brothers, 2 of whom had Lowe Syndrome.  Lowe Syndrome is a rare syndrome that affects the eyes, kidneys and brain.  Boys are born with cataracts, which is a cloudiness on the lens of their eyes, and often have Glaucoma, which is an increased pressure inside the eye.  Their kidneys do not function properly which makes it hard for them to put on weight and keep the nutrients that they need to grow and have their bodies function properly.  These boys also have varying degrees of mental and physical handicaps, anywhere from moderate to very severe. 

Jonny is our little miracle baby.  He inspires us daily with his accomplishments and his fun smile.  He spreads love and joy wherever he goes. 

He was born in November of 2013 and he spent his first ten days in the NICU because of breathing and eating issues.  In his first 6 months of life he had 5 surgeries and 8 other exams under anesthesia to take care of the glaucoma issues and cataracts on his eyes.  He is a trooper and did so well with all of these procedures.  He can see well with his glasses now.  We hope to have artificial lenses implanted in his eyes about the time he turns 3.

Jonny is delayed physically and has low muscle tone.  We are working on his head control and sitting up right now.  We hope that he will be able to sit up on his own by the time he is a year old.  He likes to roll around, kick and play with his musical mobile.   We have not noticed any significant mental delays at this time.  He loves to babble, play and listen to upbeat music.  He also enjoys finger play like pat-a-cake and itsy bitsy spider. 

He is a Mama’s boy and will call “Mom mom mom” if I get out of his sight or hearing.  He loves to play with Dad as well and he calls Dad “A” like the a in apple.  He is also starting to say “Hi” when someone says it to him. 

We work with several specialists with “Kids on the Move” which is the Early Intervention program in our area.  They help us with Jonny’s learning and growth. 

We treasure every step forward that Jonny makes.   Every smile is a treasure and he is our sunshine.  This journey that we started when Jonny was born has been hard at times but overall we have had a very positive experience.  We have had to adjust our perspective on what we expect but that has allowed us to enjoy our little boy even more.  We see the world through different eyes and we try not to take anything for granted.  The love and support we have received has been wonderful.  We couldn’t imagine life without our Jonny.

For more information on Lowe Syndrome you are welcome to visit the Lowe Syndrome Association website at http://www.lowesyndrome.org/.

~~ Molly Barrington



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